Easier said than done.

I like to say that if positive thinking, reprogramming your brain, and following your dreams were easy, everyone would be doing it.

Just like anything else, these things take practice, effort, repetition, and being willing.

It requires having realistic expectations for ourselves and this journey we’re on. Understanding that there’s no such thing as perfection.

There isn’t one person in the whole entire world who thinks nothing but positive thoughts; who always gets it right; who’s entirely fluent in forgiveness. So why would we expect it from ourselves?

Today on the show, Iyanla Vanzant — best-selling author, Fix My Life television expert, and frequent Oprah guest — shares her own personal struggle with forgiveness.

Like I said, easier said than done. Even when you’re Iyanla Vanzant.

Source: Why Iyanla Forgave Her Ex-Husband For Leaving Her for Another Woman | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN